Standing the Watch: The Greatest Gift

R.J. Brown
Big River Press (2008)
ISBN 9780979874437
Reviewed by Danelle Drake for Reader Views (10/08)

 

I will start by saying that this is one of the most beautiful books I have ever read.  The writing brought me to tears with the loving way this leaving was embraced.   As with many touchy subjects; death is not often discussed until it is upon us. 

As written in “Standing the Watch,” “There’s something about caring for our parents in their last days that’s more spiritual than all the religious words any holy man could say.  More rewarding than the fruits of any other work.”  This simple phrasing says it all.  David and RJ Brown dedicate their lives to allowing his father, Lincoln, die at home with honor and peace.

Upon his death, RJ writes; “We quietly speak to Poppa’s Spirit as we take care, for the final time, of his earthly remains and I sing songs for his departure, while Buddy-dog sleeps beneath the bed.  David turns off the heater, opens the door so Poppa’s Spirit is free to leave and lets in cool, clean, moist air.”

Not only is “Standing the Watch” somewhat of a guide to home death with many informative, educational pages at the end for those who will be embarking on the journey, it is filled with compassion for those caring for loved ones regardless of their location.  I highly recommend this loving book as I feel those who read it will grow as a person and open their eyes to all of the beauty that surrounds us.

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