B.O.O.B.S.: A Bunch of Outrageous Breast-Cancer Survivors Tell their Stories of Courage and Hope

Ann Kempner Fisher
Cumberland House Publishing, Inc (2006)
ISBN 1581825234
Reviewed by Abbie G. Yandle for Reader Views (10/06)

Ten brave women share stories of their ordeal with breast cancer. Each story in “B.O.O.B.S.” is different. The women are black, white, and Hispanic. The life-changing diagnosis came at ages from 45 to the early 60’s. They remind me of the women in the support group I attended for over two years every week, no matter what else was going on in my life. As predicted, these stories “enlighten, encourage, and empower” the reader.

Every woman’s experience with breast cancer is unique. There are different diagnoses, surgeries, treatments, histories, and prognoses. Some women have a supportive spouse. Family ties can grow stronger, or break under the strain of fear and pain. Acquaintances become loyal friends even as those believed to be close friends distance themselves because they don’t know what to say, what to do. Laughter and humor are at least as powerful as the medicines and surgeries on the road to recovery and regained health.

Sheryl’s story struck close to home for me. I rejoiced at the way she wrote candidly about her feelings about her body and struggles with her sexuality throughout her ordeal. I applaud her bravery for sharing the power of an intimate relationship to heal a wounded body and spirit.

This is a book that every woman and every man who loves his wife, mother, girlfriend, or daughter should read. “B.O.O.B.S.” gives a good overview of types of breast cancer and their treatment options. More than that, it may help anyone understand that each person dealing with this disease must make the choice that is right for her (him).  Attending and participating in a professionally-facilitated peer support group helps immensely with understanding the language of the disease and its treatments, as well as the emotional roller-coaster.  “B.O.O.B.S.” reminds us that we are not alone.

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